DONT BE AFRAID OF BEING THE FIRST ONE

think-positiveWe usually back off from experiences and adventures because we are too afraid of being the first one. So basically we have already made our minds for negative and bad consequences.
Why are we always negative about every decision we make and every step we take?
Have you ones realize the power of positivity? It can change persons as well as things in a very good way. Just try to over take your fear with positivity ones and the result will be quite amazing.
I have tried this on myself and it brought some extremely great changes in me.
Be positive about the results and take plunge without hesitation. If you fail this will become an experience and if you win you would want to win again.

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YOUR LIFE TOTALLY DEPENDS ON YOURSELF

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From the day you arrived in this world, you’re in constant learning state. Everyday you learn something it can be good or bad but you never stop learning. You learn by seeing, hearing and doing. Whatever is your surrounding you learn from it and you become like it, then your personality reflects your surrounding.
When you see someone immensely talented and efficient around yourself. You always think it’s natural or inherited by genes but it’s not, they are successful and talented because that’s what they choose to become by choice. They have walked a long way to achieve that, they have worked mentally and physically on themselves and on their goal. You can also be like them even you can take over them but it’s just the matter of positivity of your mind.
You have to believe that you can do it, it’s only you who can take over your fear and insecurities. Even it is psychologically proved that if you make your mind for something and you are confident about it, you can easily achieve it.
So, the point is you are your own motivator. You are your own teacher and you are your own boss. You can turn your life just the way you want it to be by just learning the game of mind.

JALAL AD-DIN MUHAMMAD RUMI

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Jalal ad-Din Muhammad Rumi, was a 13th century Persian Muslim poet, jurist, Islamic scholar, theologian and Sufi mystic. He is now world widely known because of his mesmerizing poetry.
I personally fell in love with his poetry after reading some books about Rumi and his poetry. furthermore, there are some extremely interesting tales about himself and his Dervish friend Shams of Tabriz. The story about his life and his relationship with Shams of Tabriz varies in every other book.
My two most favorite books about Rumi and Shams are Rumi’s Daughter and Forty Rules of Love. These two books contain some fine details about their relationship, Sufism and the strong bond between them. According to these books after the death of Shams, who was killed by Rumi’s own son. Rumi begin with poetry and in all his poems he is talking about the Dervish Shams of Tabriz.
Rumi produced his master work the Masnawi, which consists of over 60,000 poems before he died.
Some of my favorite quotes from his poems are:
“What you seek is seeking you”
“Respond to every call that excites your spirit”
“The only lasting beauty is the beauty of the heart”
“Be like a tree and let the dead leaves drop”
“Where there is ruin, there is hope for a treasure”
“The wound is the place where the light enters you”
“In every religion there is love, yet love has no religion”
“When you do things from your soul, you feel a river of joy within you”

SUPER DADS

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“Congratulations, It’s a girl! A gorgeous little angel has arrived. I feel so blessed, everything about her is so beautiful, she’s our princess our lovely daughter, this world seems so wonderful with her existence”

We will give her all the comfort and happiness of this world.
She’s 5 now, “oh it’s time for school baby girl, let’s face the world together and learn to survive and enjoy”
She’s a gorgeous young girl now, I love that pretty smile on her face. “Don’t worry my baby, dad will get you whatever you want, don’t upset yourself it hurts”
She found herself a partner, it’s time for departure. Our little girl will get married now and start her own family, I’m worried I don’t want her away from my eyes, I don’t want my house to be empty, I don’t want anyone to hurt her.
Will he take care of her like I did?

To all the super dads! This is the stage of life when you have to let go of your daughter for her goodness. Don’t worry your baby girl is a big girl now. Your love has given her the strength to face whatever comes her way, you’ve made her strong. She can fight, survive and enjoy, she learned it from you daddy.
YOU ARE STILL THE HERO OF HER LIFE!

THEY HIDE

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They live between us, they are a part of our surroundings but they hide. They have some great talents inside them, they know things more than us, they know the answers to the questions and solutions to the problems. We don’t know them, if we see them we neglect them but they are gems hidden behind the curtains of insecurity and nervousness.

Lets find them and bring them to the world, where their existence is not known yet. Because we are the  reasons they hide themselves. The problem with us is that, we have a tongue and we use it only to let others down and to point out their tiny mistakes because it makes us happy and we feel satisfied. Our pleasure lies in others displeasure.

We don’t realize but our tongue is responsible for countless injuries. So, use it consciously.

ANGELS OR HEROES

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Honest friends! Very few of us are lucky enough to have honest friends in our lives. They are a precious present that comes to you in return of some great deeds you have done in your life. The bond with them is so strong that they don’t hesitate to tell you about your flaws and weaknesses, but they will help and work with you to overcome them. They give their honest opinions which is rarely found these days. They take your back no matter how hard the situation is, they are always there for you when you need them.

You can comfortably pour your heart out with them. Call then Angels or Heroes because they are the ones who lift you up when the chips are down. They are the encourager’s and motivator’s. They don’t mind your craziness and mood tantrums. They are the entertainers, who make you laugh hard with tears. You can write books on the goodness’s they bring in your life.

Make sure you don’t lose them if you have them!

BE WELL GROOMED

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Lets talk about grooming, Why is it important in today’s world?
We all want to look pleasing and presentable and we also want to be surrounded by such people. It is true that a well groomed person is received well by friends, even our society looks up for an individual whose appearance is presentable and appealing.
The first and major step to compete with this highly competitive society is to be confident and satisfied. A person can never face a crowd if he knows they won’t accept his appearance. So, it’s important to make sure your appearance is up to the mark.
Grooming plays a major role in self satisfaction. A well groomed person naturally feels positively energetic, happy and confident. Because now he knows he is ready to face the world and make an amazing impression.

Soft Colors Mischief

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Soft colors are on the trend list these days. Especially in Pakistan where they weren’t so popular before, high end boutiques are loaded with soft colored dresses. Whether party wear or daily wear, you will only see people wearing light and soft colors particularly in elite society. Even brides on their wedding day prefer wearing light colored dresses and light makeup with facile jewelry. Indirectly, soft colors are becoming a high social class symbol.

Remembering the old days when Pakistani’s were known by their colorful dressing and heavy jewelry reflecting their culture and traditions. It’s no longer the same as it was but it is a good change considering the weather of major cities of Pakistan.

I personally love every color soft, bright or harsh and just want to highlight that every color is beautiful in its own way and every color has its own identity in Pakistan. Eg; Red & Maroon are identified as the colors of a bride. Don’t discard the colors from their identity.

Some people still love wearing dark, bright and heavy but they don’t wear it, just because they are  frightened of being judged for wearing the color of their choice. Don’t criticize because you individually don’t like it.

Keep it traditional and trendy, it’s the best fusion ever.

Do What Suits You

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In this rapid changing fashion world where trends are changing every minute, one can not decide what trend to follow. Once someone starts following a trend and in a short span of time the trend is replaced with another new one. In this kind of a situation the lower and middle class people, who love to stay groomed can not cope.

So, What is the solution? This question pops up in every individual’s mind.

What one should do is “DO WHAT SUITS YOU” because it is not necessary what’s trending will definitely suit you. Make up your own style and identity. Observe yourself, do experiments for determining the style that totally compliments your personality. Don’t follow because everyone is following. You can follow if it brings you some good. Do it your own way to satisfy yourself not others.

My First blog ever! Major Fashion Cities

41ec5becb4a8ac7a66f9df1bb72085d8I’m Zainab, a serious fashionista.

Starting up this blogging site solely because of my love for fashion. I’m not only interested in eastern fashion but I want to explore the styling and trends of the major fashion cities like; Paris, London, New York, Rome, Milan, Barcelona, Berlin, Madrid and Tokyo.

Fashion of the Globe is all about trending fashion and styles around the globe. I post weekly blogs containing updates, reviews, pros, cons and tips about the fashion world. Ranging from clothes, shoes, hair styles, makeup and fitness. This site can be very interesting for those who feed their soul with fashion.